In a conversation, you say something, then I say something, then you say something else.
This give and take is required…otherwise it isn’t a conversation. It might be a discourse, a speech, or a sermon but NOT a conversation.
And if we are not going to have a conversation then what is the point? If I want preaching I’ll go to a church. If I want to hear a speech…there is plenty of political speechmaking going on right now….trust me I can find a speech to listen to.
After being interupted a couple of times I tend to stop listening so all that talking isn’t doing any good anyway.
I know it is polite to listen…or at least try to. It is really hard to keep my attention on something I have completely lost interest in though.
And just so you know…I’m not going to change my opinion of anything just because someone throws a lot of words at me.
It seems to me that if you are so unsure of your position that you can’t even let someone else get a word in edgewise…maybe it isn’t even worth listening to.
So if you want me to pay attention to what you are saying…it is a good idea to let me say something once in a while. And actually LISTEN!
Thank you. Rant over. You can go on about your regularly scheduled surfing now.